Folks are usually split on the decision as to whether they want the ‘getting ready’ pictures during their big day or not. Some see it as a waste; others like to have every memory they can documented. I usually fall in the latter camp. There are lots of silly moments where your hair stylist makes you look like Cousin Itt or when nobody has put on a boutonnière since prom and can’t figure out how, but I also love the realization in someone’s eyes they’re about to marry the love of their life. Here are some of my favorite moments of last minute tweaks and a bit of anticipation.

Although not everybody rocks a dress on their wedding day, when they do I love to find a way to show it off.

Giggles with your besties are way better than champagne toasts — but bubbly shouldn’t be frowned upon either.

I love when a bride asks their mom to help them get dressed! God knows they have dreamed about the day as much if not more than you have, so including them is always so sweet.

Guys may not take as long to get all dolled up, but they definitely need assistance — which is where YouTube how-to videos often come in handy.

Even in all the hullabaloo, I always stress that folks should take a moment to reflect. Often that’s checking over their vows one last time. But you should also check out how dope you look in the mirror, too.

Last but not least, a big reveal to all your friends is always fun, especially when it’s greeted by happy tears. These genuine moments are why I love shooting all the wedding prep!